Weddings are a big deal and Indian weddings are full of energy with a lot of celebrations and fun times for the couple as well as the relatives & friends. Indian wedding signifies more than just the ceremonies. It’s the union of two families. But we gotta admit time’s changing and so are we. The wedding is no longer restricted to just marriage and vidaai. People are now willing to experiment with and experience their ‘Dream Wedding’ at a different level altogether.
The various new era ceremonies like Engagement Party, Sangeet & Mehendi, DJ & Cocktail Party have become a compulsory part of the routine. The increasing number of functions has added to the pressure for choosing the perfect outfit for every occasion. And it’s not just the bride who’s obviously seeking that perfect dress but also the relatives and friends. The world is a busier place today and there’s literally very little time to select multiple outfits for yourself for an upcoming wedding and absolutely no time to help your cousins and friends out for the same! Which is why we have a few guidelines that you might wanna quickly go through:
The Engagement Ceremony
The beginning has to be dramatic and gorgeous just like Bahubali, the beginning!? That’s right; the engagement party is the first official meeting between the Groom’s family and the Bride’s family. You have to look your best no matter what because as the saying goes “First impression lasts long”.
A long embellished anarkali of a safe and subtle color because the idea is not to steal the show from the bride! Nicely done hair (preferably half braids) and minimal makeup will work just fine. Heavy jewellery would be a matter of choice and depend on the kind of outfit that you’ve chosen. But it will help bring out the traditional vibe to a great extent!
Credits: Image 1- Net Georgette Anarkali by Anju Modi
Image 2- Red Kurta Set by J J Valaya
Mehendi
Mehendi is usually a very colourful event where most of the women put henna on their hands and feet. Henna is considered to be a very auspicious element in Indian weddings. This is the occasion where there’s ample amount of time to spend with the Bride to be and click ‘selfies’ and have fun.
So a colourful combination of kurti and palazzo (or churidar) along with pom pom earrings and hot pink lip shade would work wonders. But if you want to step out of the regular fashion and throw in some vibrant colors, you could team up a well-designed crop top with a long skirt or a flared palazzo. Messy bun or loose hair will give you a more casual yet stylish look.
Credits: Image 1- Gold And Black Lehenga With Jacket by Soucika By Kamal Manickath
Image 2- Pink Embroidered Anarkali Suit by Ritu Kumar
Sangeet
The name says it all! Sounds like loud music and hot favourite Bollywood numbers on the roll. There’s surely got to be too much of dancing so make sure to wear something that’s comfortable as well as chic.
Again a subtle color of choice would do no harm and save the brightest for the D-Day! So, a modish, embroidered lehenga and a really huge pair of earrings would make you look perfect and dance ready. A stroke of kajal and the brightest lipshade from your makeup bag and you’re all set for uncountable selfies and thumkas 😉
Credits: Image 1- Royal Blue Floor Length Anarkali by Aneesh Agarwal
Image 2- Yellow Peacock Lehenga by Pret’i By Priti Sahni
Cocktail Party
It’s finally time to get high and into the mood for celebrations! This day actually is a stress buster for the wedding planners especially the relatives and friends. So this is the day you chillax a bit and bring out the glamorous vibe in you.
A shimmer gown (cape gowns are now in vogue), heavy eye makeup with messy side ponytail and wavy bangs and you’re party ready! Put on your highest pair of stilettos and don’t forget to remove them before you hit the dance floor.
Credits: Image 1- Mermaid Gown by Souchika By Kamal Manickath
Image 2- Lavender Saree Gown With Crochet Cape by Shantanu & Nikhil
The D-Day
Trust me, the wedding day is equally pressurising for guests and relatives. It’s not just about choosing the perfect outfit but carrying it with utmost grace and beauty. The most important thing is to be comfortable in your outfit. That helps bring out the best in you.
A pair of lehenga choli or a beautiful piece of saree, just make sure it’s the most gorgeous attire ever! Colors can be really tricky so it’s best to go for wedding favourites like gold, maroon or purple. A multi layered maang tika or a pendant style and an embellished clutch matching the outfit and you’re ready to step out and greet the world.
Credits: Image 1- Peach And Golden Saree by Soucika By Kamal Manickath
Image 2- Turquoise Bridal Lehenga by J J Valaya
Reception Party
The reception party is yet another very glamorous event and usually the concluding event. People are all dolled up and excited to wish the couple. Its celebration time for both the families and moment of rejoice over the new accord.
Your reception outfit could be a regal anarkali with detailed embroidery or you could ditch the usual ethnic wear and go for something western like a saree gown. A nicely tied bun or curled hair would add sparkles to the beautiful outfit. Go for a bold lip color and flaunt it coz you rock it!
Credits: Image 1- Aari Anarkali Suit by Pritam By Pritam Saha
Image 2- Midnight Blue Zardozi Saree Gown by Shantanu & Nikhil
Indian weddings can be either big fat or simple and traditional. But the sentiments involved and the efforts put in to create a memorable ceremony are priceless. It’s the hardest thing ever to send your daughter/sister/friend away from you to a different family altogether but at the same time it’s also the most satisfying feeling to see her happily settled.
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